Sunday, December 5, 2010

Radvent, Day 4 - FORGIVENESS















It’s hard to come out of a place of resentment, and it takes practice (just like everything). Practice forgiving about small, everyday things. You can always non-forgive later. Who and what are you ready to let go of resentment toward?


This one is very hard for me to write, seeing as how I tend to give people the benefit of a doubt and I try to forgive people as much as possible. You never know what people are going through or if someone is just having a bad day. Maybe I am just avoiding the situation…I’ll give it a try.

People I am ready to forgive, to practice:

*My father and sister, for leaving me before their time *My sister, for thinking it was a good idea to swim alone *Myself, for thinking that I could have done more to prevent my family from falling apart, *My boyfriend, for stinking up the living room * My crazy junior year roommate

People who I am not ready to forgive yet:

*My 12th grade math teacher who yelled “what are you stupid?” to me in front of the entire study hall, I lost total confidence in myself for a long time because of you. *Myself, for losing touch with certain friends

Radvent, Day 3- WRITING:
















Today’s journaling challenge is about giving yourself permission to put any thought into words. Explore your feelings and dreams, record your moods, and embrace your own unique weirdness. Make collages, lists, and inspiration boards with quotes and pictures and drawings. Write about the things you are afraid to say. The things you aren’t supposed to say. It’s all okay and it’s all allowed!


My Dearest Katharine,

I have never been that fancy with my choice of words, so I’m just going to get straight to the point: You are better than you think you are. There have been many times in your life that you think you aren’t deserving of family, friends, love, opportunities, golden retrievers, etc. but you totally are. You are often shy, awkward, unsure of your capabilities; but on the flip side, I am proud that you don’t care about what other people think about you, and you can find something funny out of any situation! Be confident in yourself; don’t sell yourself short. You got this far without asking for any help; but it is okay to ask for help. You are proud of your accomplishments, even though you may think that you have yet to accomplish anything. Remember that you are now only 25. You have made it through high school (and not hated it), completed college, gotten a Masters degree, found someone who understands you, comforts, and laughs with you, made (and kept) true friends, and are practicing in a profession that you have wanted to do since you were 10. Sadly, some people may never even accomplish one of those.

You have often been extremely cautious to try to new things, travel to new places or go after what you really want, or think you want, because you’re afraid of being reckless, or losing your focus. I encourage you to be a little reckless sometimes. Don’t worry all the time about money or doing the “right” thing. Don’t be afraid to fail doing what you believe in. You’ll never know if you don’t try. Don’t be afraid to do something just for yourself. By the time I see you next, you’ll probably have a years-worth of new experiences and adventures to tell me all about. Make sure to keep in touch with everyone who has gotten you this far.

Love,

Quarter Century Katharine

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Radvent, Day 2- ORGANIZING:
















Radvent day two!! Today’s theme, “organizing,” is not about making your life perfect or forcing yourself into new habits, because that’s a sure way to feel like a failure (which you are not at all!). The point of organization is to clear out all of the things that make you feel bad, that let crappy feelings bubble up to the surface, and making room for good feelings, for better things, for family, friends, hobbies, health.
























This task was pretty easy for me, since I was going to do it anyway. Score! I'm just glad that I got the extra-push from the Radvent to not procrastinate until December 21st. To get into the Christmas spirit, I thought it would be appropriate to pack up the Halloween/Thanksgiving/Fall decor and replace with Christmas spirit! I left the decorative leaves up because we haven't gotten curtains yet and it just looks so sad without them after they've been put up. I should definitely work on finishing the project of getting curtains. And yes, this is a little embarrassing, but that is our air conditioner that we JUST removed. Whoops!

Today we were successful in picking out and decorating our Christmas tree. It was definitely weird for me to "trek" out into the shopping center parking lot to the large corral of trees. I've been collecting ornaments from various places that I've traveled just for our first tree in our own place. They have mostly been from coastal places, hence the nautical theme, but I am pretty proud of the ceramic Tulum jaguar from Mexico and my double decka London bus!























Friday, December 3, 2010

Radvent, Day 1 - REMEMBERING

Found this cool Advent Journal idea from this blog. It's almost as good as poking a perforated cardboard window to get a piece of chocolate every day!










"What were you doing five years ago today? As the holiday season began? Where were you? Who were you with? What did you want? What did you have?"


Early December for the last 6 years (excluding 2009) was always spent cranking out final production material for my studio finals. I can remember every year based on what studio I was in, but everything else is just a blur of sleepless nights, 3-day-old sweatpants, and trying to catch a nap in any of the larger lecture classes.

December of 2005 was probably the worst for me…I had a hard-ass critic who no one in my studio group could crack. His philosophy on architecture school was that we shouldn’t have holidays/family/vacation because they get in the way of studio and the design process. What a Grinch! My classmates and I bonded over his craziness. My fall 2005 was the semester from Hell and I thought that if I could just make it out of this studio, I could get through any subsequent studio relatively unscathed. Studio finals were always in the first week of December before other finals so that architecture students wouldn’t fail their other classes. In architecture school, Studio is King, and most other classes come second.

As a second year architecture student, I remember this was the first semester that we were allowed to use computers (aka: Cad and 3d modeling programs) for our finals. So along with trying to have a kick-ass design concept, we had to teach ourselves these programs and hope that upperclassmen would take pity on us and help us figure out plotting, scanning, etc. To this day, plotting is still a nightmare!

I remember one guy in my class was told 5 days before the final that he should just start over. I remember signing up for my last red-line review before our final, only to be blown off by my critic for a “faculty meeting” that I later found out was a “tennis date.” I remember slicing my left index finger with my x-acto while trying to build my final model. I ran to the bathroom as my finger gushed blood. Standing alone in the bathroom, I thought I was going to pass out and have no one find me, but thankfully my roommate, who was also an architecture major, saw what was going on and followed me. I had sliced it so badly that it looked like I had a hoof. Public Safety demanded that I go to the emergency room but I refused; I had to finish my model, or risk failing studio. They made me sign a release form, saying that I wouldn’t sue the school for negligence. Hum-z bought me a huge pizza to cheer me up, which meant I had hoards of people at my desk trying to snag a slice. I plugged away, trying to one-handedly finish my model. To my amazement, there wasn’t a drop of blood on the tiny diving board I was trying to cut before the incident. To this day, I still remember my studio critic telling me I had horrible craftsmanship on my final model. But I didn’t care. I was just happy to be done with him, and that studio, and that evil diving board!

I remember 2005 was the year that my parents decided that they would FINALLY put real floors in our house. Until college, I had thought that plywood floors were suitable residential flooring. Because of this project, my mom had “cancelled” Christmas and said that we could not get a Christmas tree because there were boxes of flooring everywhere and furniture strewn about. This was unacceptable to me, so my best friend Beth helped me stuff a tree into my tiny Celica and sneak it into my house. All was well, until my parents and I came home from a Christmas Eve dinner to find that the tree stand had leaked and ruined part of the newly laid parquet flooring in our living room. There was a whole lot of yelling that lead to me having to un-trim the tree and drag it outside. I called Hum-z, who was with his family in Maryland, crying hysterically that Christmas was ruined! He offered to buy me a train ticket to Maryland that night, but I refused.

My parents eventually got over it and let me bring the tree back inside, but only if I put it in a non-parqued section of the house. This was the last Christmas that I spent at home during college.

Things I've learned because of December 2005:

- I don’t want to be one of those people who takes myself or my design SO seriously that I can’t have a life. My life was made miserable because I thought I had to spend 28 hours a day designing to make someone else happy.

- Never trust an old Christmas tree stand.

- Basswood diving boards are still evil!


And now for some pictures of the Christmas Tree finding adventure. We are clearly up to no good!
















Friday, November 19, 2010

Just a lil something I've been working on...


I love to draw/color, and I definitely don't do it enough. While I cannot take all the credit, I was inspired by this large-scale Marimekko wall hanging I found about a month ago at CB2. Here's my latest creation: (Click on it for original.)
















Linework: Felt tip marker on 8.5" x 11"
Colorization on Adobe Illustrator

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Chicken Tikka Masala

This is my first attempt at making Indian food, so I tried to make Chicken Tikka Masala; which also happens to be Hum-z's favorite Indian dish. I cannot take any credit for the recipe, as I found it on allrecipes.com. I altered it a little by not using any salt, as a lot of people on their website said it was too salty.






Ingredients:
1 cup yogurt
1 tablespoon lemon juice
2 teaspoons ground cumin
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
2 teaspoons cayenne pepper
2 teaspoons freshly ground black pepper
1 tablespoon minced fresh ginger
4 teaspoons salt, or to taste
3 boneless skinless chicken breasts, cut
into bite-size pieces (I used 4)
4 long skewers
1 tablespoon butter
1 clove garlic, minced
1 jalapeno pepper, finely chopped
2 teaspoons ground cumin
2 teaspoons paprika
3 teaspoons salt, or to taste (I didn't use any salt in my version.)
1 (8 ounce) can tomato sauce
1 cup heavy cream
1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro



Directions:

1. In a large bowl, combine yogurt, lemon juice, 2 teaspoons cumin, cinnamon, cayenne, black pepper, ginger, and 4 teaspoons salt (Again, I did not use salt, and it was fine.) Stir in chicken, cover, and refrigerate for 1 hour.
2. Preheat a grill for high heat. (I cooked mine in a frying pan, since I don't have a grill.)
3. Lightly oil the grill grate. Thread chicken onto skewers, and discard marinade. Grill until juices run clear, about 5 minutes on each side.
4. Melt butter in a large heavy skillet over medium heat. Saute garlic and jalapeno for 1 minute. Season with 2 teaspoons cumin, paprika, and 3 teaspoons salt (Didn't use salt.) Stir in tomato sauce and cream. Simmer on low heat until sauce thickens, about 20 minutes. Add grilled chicken, and simmer for 10 minutes. Transfer to a serving platter, and garnish with fresh cilantro. (I poured my chicken onto a bed of rice and also warmed up some naan. Next time I'll take it to another level by making mango lassi's.)